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I’m packed and ready to go. It’s been a while since I’ve visited my family unit in Baton Rouge. 🥰 I can’t wait to see them all. This one is going to be memorable. My brother is graduating with his Masters and is probably going to move out and live...

I’m packed and ready to go. It’s been a while since I’ve visited my family unit in Baton Rouge. 🥰 I can’t wait to see them all. This one is going to be memorable. My brother is graduating with his Masters and is probably going to move out and live his adult life. Leaving my parents officially retired. No more kids in the house. Who knows when our next family trip will happen? So we’re going to try have a good one and make all the memories! 💖💖💖🥰

Also. I saw this hat at Target today and had to get it for my mom. She’s Korean and speaks Korean, Spanish, and English. But she still has a slight accent. “Sheet” turns to “shit”, “piece” turns to “piss”, and “beach” turns into “bitch”. So we lovingly tease our mom for having a dirty mouth. So this hat is perfect. Even though we aren’t going to a beach. I don’t think…🤔 (at Los Angeles, California)
https://www.instagram.com/p/BxO491BnLKi/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1wgvf6kx0g473

Happy Birthday to my 🎂 sweet boy. Turning 9 years old…and your 7th year with me. I remember the day mom brought you home from the animal shelter. I cried out of pure joy. And from that day you’ve been my rock and source of happiness. During my...

Happy Birthday to my 🎂 sweet boy. Turning 9 years old…and your 7th year with me. I remember the day mom brought you home from the animal shelter. I cried out of pure joy. And from that day you’ve been my rock and source of happiness. During my darkest days, you were the reason I’d get out of bed…because I knew you needed to be walked or fed. I cared more for you than I did for myself…but through you, I’ve learned to be kinder to myself.
You’ve been there for me through an emotionally abusive relationship. Through the darkness. Through friendships. Moving to Bloomington, Indiana. And even a 5 day drive to Los Angeles, California. You’ve aged…and I cry every time I even think about you getting so old that I’ll one day be without you. But until that day…I’ll cherish you every day.
Thanks for being my best friend.
My little Guapito.
Here’s to more belly rubs. 💖🐶🐕🐾
(at Koreatown, Los Angeles)
https://www.instagram.com/p/BuGF84xnLyz/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ikqdz4amhl8k

ungood-pants:

I want cis lesbians to work on making a stronger support system for trans lesbians. Saying “no terfs” just ain’t enough, y’all.

Like, help a trans lesbian get a job. Invite her out to shit. Talk to her. Bring her around other lesbians and don’t make a big show of correcting someone who misgenders her. Offer a ride home at the end of the night so she doesn’t have to walk or bus alone. If you see a trans girl on the bus, sit next to her so some random, terrible dude doesn’t. Don’t invite people to a gathering that’d make her feel unsafe. Know your friends & girlfriend better. Talk to’em about the how and why of supporting trans lesbians. If they’re not on board, get them on board, and if that doesn’t work, it’s time to question the company you keep.

Make it so she feels that OF COURSE she belongs. That OF COURSE she’s supported.

Like idk, everything I just listed is stuff that… you just do for a friend. Y’all it ain’t that hard to treat a trans woman like, ya know, a friend.

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